We all have friends. They may be just peers, colleagues or they may be our best friends. For five years in the primary school I had only one best friend. When I think about it now I consider this relationship as addiction. I was addicted, jealous and frustrated. After she left my school I started to make friends with other people in my class. From this time I always had more than just one best friend. I can't imagine how would my life would look life with only one. Our closest friends are just as important as teachers – they are actually ones. Sometimes they teach us about some paiting techniques, new dishes or they give us very important but painful lessons – they teach us, that they have never been your friends and they broke your heart. In past three years mine was broken two times. It is doing well now. It thought me, that there should be always a backup friend. Time heals all wounds, but it is not the only healer. New people are showing and they take care of you even if they don't know about it.
The main thought of everything I wrote above is that there should be more friends than just one. Before I ended my friendship with these two people they had roles in my life. With one I was talking about some serious cases or her romantic life and with other about wicked dreams and some pretty boys or girls somewhere on the Earth. But there was, is, the third one. We don't see each other often – we just text or send funny pictures, but she was there for me when I didn't know what to do. She still does. She always brightens my mind and make me think sober.
Friends have different parts to play in your life. They should have something in common with you but also have many other passions, so they can learn you something new. One human can't be everyone and know everything. Because who has got times for both politics and TV series...?
The last thing is very important. You must remember that friendship is not a parasitism or a torture. You need to remember about love and trust and be conscious about who your friend is – the last thing you want is a toxic friend in yoir life.
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